Meeting new people should be exciting, not stressful. Follow these tips to protect yourself while making meaningful connections.
Use our messaging system until you feel comfortable. It's monitored for safety and gives you easy access to blocking and reporting tools.
Verified members have confirmed their identity. While not a guarantee of character, it means they are who they claim to be.
Don't rush into sharing personal information or meeting in person. Genuine connections can develop at a comfortable pace.
Before meeting in person, consider a video call. It confirms they look like their photos and helps you gauge chemistry.
For first meetings, choose busy, public places. Coffee shops, restaurants, and popular venues are great options.
Let a friend or family member know where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to be back.
Trust your instincts. If something feels off, it probably is. Here are warning signs to look out for:
If you encounter any of these behaviors, stop communication immediately and report the user through our app.
When you're ready to take a connection offline, follow these precautions.
Pick a public place you're familiar with—a busy coffee shop, restaurant, or popular venue. Don't let them choose a remote or private location for a first meeting.
Drive yourself or use a rideshare. Don't rely on your date for a ride, especially for the first few meetings. This gives you control over when you leave.
Share your plans with someone you trust: where you're going, who you're meeting, and when you expect to return. Consider sharing your live location.
Keep your wits about you. Limit alcohol consumption and never leave your drink unattended. Being alert helps you make good decisions.
If something feels wrong, leave. You don't owe anyone an explanation. Your safety is more important than being polite.
Set up a check-in system with a friend. A text or call at a predetermined time lets them know you're okay—or signals that you need help.
Never send money to someone you haven't met in person. Scammers often build emotional connections before asking for financial help. No matter how compelling the story, don't send money, gift cards, or financial information to anyone on Gylde.
Common scams include: medical emergencies, travel costs to meet you, business investments, and cryptocurrency schemes. If someone asks for money, report them immediately.
We've built safety into our platform. Here's how we help protect you:
Our ID verification confirms members are who they claim to be.
Premium members can share a number without revealing their real one.
Block anyone instantly. They can't contact you or see your profile.
Report concerning behavior directly from profiles or conversations.
Control who sees your private photos with approval-based access.
See at a glance how complete and verified someone's profile is.
If you're in an unsafe situation or need support, these resources can help.
In an emergency, call 911 (or your local emergency number) immediately.
If you've experienced harassment, abuse, or any concerning behavior on Gylde, please report it. Your reports help us keep the community safe.
Use the report button on any profile or conversation